做人可以不聪明,但一定要有分寸感。每个人都要找到自己的位置,应该是你的,才是你的;不该是你的,连搭腔都不要。话说得越多,反而会显得自己越浅薄。所以,人要实,话要藏,用做事的结果来征服人,而不是说服人。
You can be unwise, but you must have a sense of proportion. Everyone has to find his place, it should be yours, it's yours; it shouldn't be yours, don't even talk. The more you say, the more shallow you will appear. Therefore, people must be truthful and their words hidden, and use the results of doing things to conquer people rather than persuade them.
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